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Really thought-provoking post on the concept of time. It reminded me of something a disabled friend once shared with me: “The concept of time is ableist.” They explained how Western culture builds rigidity into time—meetings, concerts, parties all start at a set time, and if you can’t make it, you miss out.

We joked about “Filipino time” and how, in the Philippines, events like weddings, funerals even simple get-togethers stretch over hours with people coming and going. There's no pressure to arrive at a specific time, or be judged for lateness. The fluidity of time allows for so much more diversity - parents, children, elderly, disabled folks of all different needs are welcome for whatever time period they have.

My friend sighed and said they wished things were more like that here. For them—and many others—getting out of bed, dressed, and transported can take hours, and time blindness or access barriers often mean missing out entirely.

It really shifted how I see time—not just as a structure, but as something that can include or exclude. There’s real value in questioning how tightly we let it rule us.

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